In French, you don’t really say “I miss you.”
You say “tu me manques” which is closer to
“you are missing from me.”
I love that. “You are missing from me.”
You are a part of me, you are essential to my being.
You are like a limb, or an organ, or blood.
I cannot function without you.
“It’s just a phase” yeah, but I mean the moon goes through phases but it’s still literally always the moon. Just because the moon is doing something different today doesn’t mean it was lying about being the moon yesterday.
Maybe you should embrace the anger. Hate it out until you’re good and done hating. Holding it in rarely makes it go away. It just lays buried deep within.